{"title":"For Someone Else","description":"\u003cp\u003eFor the person standing next to it — the partner, the parent, the friend, the grown-up child.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eYou cannot make somebody stop. What you can do is put the right words in front of them and still be there afterwards. Everything on this shelf is written for you: what to say, what not to say, and what actually helps.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003cstrong\u003eAnd if you would rather not say it was you\u003c\/strong\u003e — you do not have to. A Small Gift can be handed over, or printed and left somewhere they will find it on their own, unsigned. \u003ca href=\"\/fr\/pages\/a-quiet-way-to-help\"\u003eBoth ways are explained here\u003c\/a\u003e.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eInstant PDF downloads. Print them at home, as many times as you like.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eNothing here is treatment. The National Gambling Helpline is free on 0808 8020 133, 24 hours a day. 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Card ten is the helpline.\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003e\n\u003cstrong\u003eSet two — What I understand now.\u003c\/strong\u003e The shifts in thinking that took me years to arrive at, one to a card. You are not a bad person. Today still counts. Secrecy is the fuel.\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003e\n\u003cstrong\u003eSet three — For someone else.\u003c\/strong\u003e For partners, parents and friends — and for handing to somebody who has not said anything yet. Ask, do not accuse. You did not cause it. You need support too.\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003c\/ul\u003e\u003ch3\u003eHow it prints\u003c\/h3\u003e\u003cp\u003eThree A4 sheets, ten cards to a sheet, with dotted cut lines and crop marks in the margins. Each card finishes at 85.6 × 54mm — exactly bank-card size, so it sits in a card slot without folding. Print at 100% on ordinary paper, or on card if you have it, and cut with scissors or a steel rule.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eThere are five small tally boxes at the foot of every card. Tick one each time a card works. The card with four ticks in it is the one to keep at the front of your wallet.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003ch3\u003eThe honest bit\u003c\/h3\u003e\u003cp\u003eThis is an instant PDF download. Nothing is posted to you, there is no app and no login, and you can reprint it as often as you like, forever. A card in your wallet is not treatment and it is no substitute for help — the National Gambling Helpline is free on 0808 8020 133, 24 hours a day.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eWritten by one person in the UK, from fifteen years of gambling addiction and the way back from it.\u003c\/p\u003e","brand":"Step Into Stability","offers":[{"title":"Default Title","offer_id":60846436090190,"sku":null,"price":2.0,"currency_code":"GBP","in_stock":true}],"thumbnail_url":"\/\/cdn.shopify.com\/s\/files\/1\/1068\/7578\/1454\/files\/pin-05-pocket-cards.png?v=1790324206"},{"product_id":"a-small-gift-for-someone-who-is-struggling","title":"A Small Gift — For Someone Who Is Struggling","description":"\u003cp\u003eEleven pages, one pound. For when somebody you love is gambling and you do not know what to say.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eYou print it, you write one line on it, and you leave it somewhere they will find it on their own. That is the whole idea. No programme, no lecture, nothing for them to sign up to.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003ch3\u003eTwo ways to give it\u003c\/h3\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003cstrong\u003eHand it over.\u003c\/strong\u003e Print it, write one line on the front in your own hand, and give it to them. The letter does the opening, so you are not stood there trying to find the words.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003cstrong\u003eOr leave it, and never say it was you.\u003c\/strong\u003e Print it and put it somewhere they will find it alone — a coat pocket, a bedside table, the kitchen worktop. Write nothing, or write one line and do not sign it. Nothing in the letter names you. They read it with nobody watching their face, and they never have to admit they read it at all.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eFor a lot of people the second way is the only one they will actually take, and that is fine. \u003ca href=\"\/fr\/pages\/a-quiet-way-to-help\"\u003eBoth ways are explained here\u003c\/a\u003e.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003ch3\u003eFour different letters — print the one that fits\u003c\/h3\u003e\u003cp\u003eThe words change depending on who is giving it, because being handed something by your partner is not the same as being handed it by your child. There is a letter from a \u003cstrong\u003epartner\u003c\/strong\u003e, from a \u003cstrong\u003eparent\u003c\/strong\u003e, from a \u003cstrong\u003efriend\u003c\/strong\u003e, and from a \u003cstrong\u003egrown-up son or daughter\u003c\/strong\u003e. Each one is written differently the whole way through — not the same letter with a word swapped.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eYou print one, not four.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003ch3\u003eTwenty wallet cards, in two sets\u003c\/h3\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003cstrong\u003eSet one — when the urge is here.\u003c\/strong\u003e Ten cards for them, for the sixty seconds before a decision gets made. Ten minutes. Play the tape to the end. Change the room. Card ten is the helpline, already written down.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003cstrong\u003eSet two — for you.\u003c\/strong\u003e Ten cards for the person standing next to it. You did not cause it. Think before you clear the debt. Measure honesty, not money. One of them is there to hand to somebody else who has said nothing yet.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eEvery card finishes at 85.6 × 54mm — exactly a bank card, so it sits in a wallet without folding. 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